Bob Marley, My Grandmother, and Cream of Wheat

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Posted by peskypippi | Posted in Advice, Breakfast, Life Lessons, Memories | Posted on 20-08-2012

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Who knew that Bob Marley and my grandmother were actually alike?

At first glance, they were nearly opposite.

  • He wore his hair in long dreadlocks. She wore her hair in short, rollered curls.
  • He smoked weed. She pulled weeds.
  • He was born in Jamaica in 1945. She was born in Iowa in 1906.
  • He played Reggae on steel drums. She played church hymns on the piano.

My grandmother always reassured me, “Don’t worry, Honey. Everything will be all right.”

Much like Bob Marley’s song Three Little Birds, “Don’t worry about a thing. ‘Cause every little thing gonna be all right.”

A good message to hear when I am feeling down and need a boost. And in a way, the song is as uplifting as a hymn.

When my husband and I were dating in college, he made me a mix tape (yeah, it was a cassette tape) with that song. Every time I hear Three Little Birds now, I smile and think about my husband and my sweet grandmother, who made me Cream of Wheat for breakfast with a smiley face. And I am reassured.

Ode to Cheetos

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Posted by peskypippi | Posted in Food, Memories | Posted on 06-07-2012

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Oh, Cheetos

With your orange wonder-glitter

Your zesty cheese leaves a savory film on my tongue and fingers

Six fingers are tinted neon orange

Forcing me to lick them clean

So that I can grab the Coke can

And take a swig

Creating the perfect snack duo

I am a kid again

 

 

Dates with my Dad were Visits to Sears

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Posted by peskypippi | Posted in Childhood, Children, Dates, Fathers, Memories, Parenting | Posted on 11-06-2012

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My Dad would hold out his hand to me in the parking lot and I would grab onto his finger. Hand-and-finger we walked across the bubbling asphalt, where temperatures in Missouri would hover at 95 degrees. My childhood summers were spent in Missouri; my parents were divorced.

Our destination: air-conditioned Sears. I would be giddy with excitement, on my near-weekly dates with my Dad.

The Sears candy counter would greet us, with its smells of warm cashews and popcorn. Its vivid colors and heaps of candy were endless: orange slices, fruit sour balls, giant lollipops, fudge, pecan logs, chocolate honeycomb, candy sticks, golden butterscotch, malted milk balls, Boston baked beans.

It was heavenly!

I would linger, wishing and hoping. Then pleading, for orange slices.

“Nah,” my Dad would say. “You don’t need them.” As he walked towards the hardware section.

But I DID need those orange slices! I needed to taste their chewy, sugary flesh.

We meandered around the shiny red mowers–where you could smell the new, rubbery tires–lawn furniture with welcoming umbrellas, and fans.

Yes! The fans! My favorite!

Big box fans with red and blue streamers blowing in the air, waving. With a beach ball bouncing and hovering, on top of the fan, showing off. I would stare at the ball, mesmerized. Then would grab it and pull it off course and replace it, where it would continue to float.

My Dad would always buy something. Bolts? A hammer? Who knows. And did he really need to buy an item or was it the air conditioning and the outing itself that beckoned? All I knew was that I still yearned for candy.

On the way out, I pleaded my case again. I mean, really, how could he resist my charm?

A quick stop by the candy counter on our way out.

The rush of heat, as we exited, seemed hotter than before. It warmed my goosebumped arms.

Crossing the parking lot, I clutched my little paper sack, crinkling in my hands, filled with a dollar’s worth of orange slices. I would take little bites, savoring them, so they would last longer.

Those were simpler times. Now, no more Sears candy counters. They are long gone.

I called my Dad the other day and we reminisced about our outings dates at Sears. We chatted and laughed about those orange slices.

And for a few minutes, we resurrected those decades-old memories, which are not so long gone after all.

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