Posted by peskypippi | Posted in Advice, Animals, Childhood, Childrearing, Children, Life, Life Lessons, Memories, Mother, Mothering, Nature, Parenting | Posted on 20-05-2013
Tags: life lessons, lizard, love, parenting, parenting lessons
Once upon a time, there was a young girl who wore pigtails and overalls. She was a nature lover, this girl, who loved climbing trees, blowing dandelions, observing worms, and oohing over butterflies. One day, she discovered a lizard and picked it up. She examined its scaly, grey back, little beady eyes, and long tail.
When it was time to go home and leave the lizard where she found it, she actually didn’t.
She snuck that lizard into her overalls pocket, making sure that lizard was safe and warm and protected.
She proceeded to cuddle that lizard and build it a little home. In a shoebox, with grass, plenty of love, and ta washcloth to keep it warm. What else could a little lizard need?
With the over abundance of love and nurturing, the lizard’s tail broke off. The young girl quickly taped it back on.
The lizard soon perished. The young girl had smothered her lizard pet, with her over nurturing, and was in tears.
She learned a few life lessons on that hot Summer day. Not only did she learn that many species of lizards release their tail when they want to escape from a predator, but:
- How to care for a creature, but also to give it space.
- How to love a creature, but not over smother it.
- How you can’t fix a problem with a simple patch.
- And how, at some point, you need to set the creature free.
As I recount my daughter’s story from several years ago, I now see that her lessons learned are also parenting lessons that I am learning.