Posted by peskypippi | Posted in Love, Metaphor, Mothering, Parenting, Teenagers | Posted on 27-01-2015
Tags: emotions, letting go, love, raising children, sadness, support, teenagers
I have always heard that parenting is tough. Especially the letting go part.
Framed in a positive way, it’s about loving, encouraging, and supporting your children to grow and become young adults. You want them to learn, find happiness, be independent, and move forward. Try new things! Be your own person! Learn responsibilities! Do what you love! Become independent!
Leave the nest! (Yeah, no. I am not ready.)
The day I spotted these geese flying was the same day I dropped off my fifteen-year-old son in the school parking lot, as he headed off on a three-day wrestling tournament far away. As I watched him board the bus with his teammates–his bags and gear packed–he was happy, excited, eager.
Hug. I love you. I’m proud of you.
My son was doing what he should be doing. Growing, being challenged, taking chances, becoming independent, and moving forward.
But what was I doing? I was staring at the lake, with tears in my eyes. Watching the geese fly away.